What to Do with an Engagement Ring Post-Divorce: Where to Begin and How We Can Help

Divorce is like a hard reset button for life, and deciding what to do with your wedding ring can be the perfect way to clear out any lingering bad juju. Turning that ring into something new isn’t just a style upgrade—it can be a cleansing and transformative experience, both literally and figuratively. This is the opportunity for a chance to wipe the slate clean and move forward with nothing but good vibes.

At Croft & Stern, we’re here to help you through this process—whether it’s turning that ring into a whole new look, or just figuring out the best next step. Because moving on doesn’t have to be just about letting go; it’s about the transformation.

Here are some preliminary directions to consider:

Redesign the Ring: Breathe new life into your jewels, and take charge of your new era, with a ring makeover. Turn it into a chic necklace, a pair of earrings, or even a killer cocktail ring. This way, you’re not just moving on—you’re moving on with style. Plus, who doesn’t love a good “glow-up”.

You’ve heard of engagement rings, but have you considered a "divorce ring"? Yes, it’s a thing. Think of it as a little bling to commemorate your newfound freedom. These rings are often a fresh design that says, “I’m single, I’m fabulous, and I’m not afraid to shine.” It’s all about transforming that symbol of commitment into a symbol of empowerment—because you’re writing your own happily-ever-after.

Sell or Trade-In: If you’re done with the ring and want to cut all ties, why not sell it? Just be aware that the resale value might not be sky-high, so channel your inner savvy shopper when finding the right buyer. Do we buy back rings? Not typically, but we can talk through your options together.

Hold Onto It: Not ready to make a decision? No rush. Pop that ring in a drawer and let it hang out until you’re ready to deal with it. You will know when it is the right time.

Should I keep it for my children?: Some people also consider holding onto the diamond to pass down to their children. It’s a sweet gesture, but make sure it’s what your child actually wants. Sometimes, the sentiment isn’t as important to them, and you might find that using the ring for something for you now is a better way to honor your past. After all, you spent the time, so you should reap the benefits! If this idea piques your interest, make sure to have an open conversation with your child before making any decisions.

This is just the beginning of a dazzling new adventure

Repurpose Your Divorce Ring: Where to Begin

Repurposing your divorce ring is an opportunity to turn a symbol of the past into something that reflects your future. Whether you're looking to create a completely new piece of jewelry or simply want to give the ring a fresh update, here’s how you can start the process.

Where to Begin

First, consider what kind of jewelry speaks to you. Do you love the idea of a bold cocktail ring, or would you prefer a delicate necklace that you can wear every day? Perhaps a pair of earrings that catch the light just right? Start by exploring different styles and trends to see what resonates with your personal aesthetic.

A good place to begin is by browsing jewelry design websites, Pinterest boards, or even fashion magazines for inspiration. Take note of designs that catch your eye and consider how the elements of your ring—such as the stones or metal—could be incorporated into a new piece. If you’re feeling stuck, think about the jewelry you already love wearing. What makes those pieces special to you? This can guide the design of your repurposed jewelry.

Research and Gather Ideas

Once you have a general idea of what you might like, it’s time to get more specific. Look into custom jewelry designers and see examples of their past work. Websites like Pinterest, Instagram and our Before and After page can also be a treasure trove of creative ideas, where you can see how others have reimagined their rings into something new. Make sure to save images or sketches of designs that you like so you can share them with us.

As you gather ideas, consider the practical aspects too—like what kind of settings or metal work would best suit your lifestyle. If you’re someone who’s constantly on the go, a sturdy, low-profile setting might be better than a high, intricate one.

What’s Next?

After you’ve gathered your ideas, the next step is to set up a consultation. At Croft & Stern, we specialize in taking your vision and turning it into reality. We’ll guide you through the design process, helping you decide what can be done with the materials from your original ring. Together, we’ll create a piece that’s not only beautiful but also meaningful—something that truly reflects who you are now, and where you want to be.

What About the Metal?

Beyond simply resetting the stones, most guests take the opportunity to use the gold or platinum from the setting to trade your precious metals, at a higher trade percentage, toward the cost of your project. It’s the perfect time to declutter your jewelry box! If you have other pieces you’re unsure about, don’t wear and can trade in for metal credit, or want to combine into your new design, bring them in. We're here to help you transform your old treasures into something you'll love wearing every day.

I Want to Get Started!

Let’s start with a consultation to discuss your ideas and review any inspiration you’ve collected. Set up an appointment with one of our designers. Bring any jewelry you could trade or modify, and your inspirational images. From there we’ll provide design sketches and upon starting the build, digital renderings and 3D models so you can see exactly what your new piece will look like before it’s crafted. Throughout the process, we’re here to provide guidance and support to ensure that the final piece is something you’ll cherish. Click here to schedule.

*Note*: When considering what to do with a divorce ring, it's important to ensure that the ring is legally yours before making any decisions. In some cases, the ownership of the ring might still be a point of contention, particularly if the divorce settlement has not been finalized or if the ring was a family heirloom with specific conditions attached. It's always wise to consult with your attorney to confirm that you're fully within your rights to repurpose, sell, or redesign the ring. Taking this step will give you peace of mind and ensure that your next chapter starts on solid legal ground.